A woman far more wise than I once said (and I may be paraphrasing slightly, it was a long time ago!): “the only stories we can totally truthfully tell are our own”. Now, you can pull that every which way depending on your own perspective, but she was a patient advocate speaking at a surgeons conference at the time and she used her own experience to extraordinary effect.
The storytellers among you – and I count myself as one – may already be debating the point in your heads, but I firmly believe the MOST powerful stories come from our own, and when we find the courage to tell them, even if only to ourselves, they can be life changing.
Most of you reading this will know of events in the four years before I came to Wiltshire, and the writing that became the foundation of The She Inside project. What may not have been so obvious – including to me – is the pivotal role photography played in my healing. SHE may have been the voice I gave to the story, but my camera and what I learned to create with it was ultimately the conduit from dark to light. And I do not say that lightly.
Dark and difficult times are never easy places to revisit for any of us – our minds have a natural tendency to move away from them as time passes because it’s healthy to do so, and life genuinely does go on. But SHE is my talisman, reminding me how far I’ve come, and how much life is to be loved, no matter what, every single day.
As I’ve said before: there is no single self, only moments of now when we are the sum of the moments that went before.
I have so much to thank Her for.
Sarah, I totally agree with you on the power of the human stories. This is something I believe, too. I try to tell my story, knowing it’s just part of the tapestry of personal stories out there. Wonderful post. Thank you.
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Oh Beth how true! That ‘tapestry of personal stories’ has such potency for connecting us to own situations and others. I’ve just been reading some of your own, I totally connect with so much. Be well xxxx
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Love this so much Sarah – the power of stories to heal our wounded selves, and to connect us to each other is a topic that I never tire of hearing about.
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Love you so much, Marie, you’re a constant inspiration. It is amazing just how much power our stories have, and it starts with us connecting fully with our own. xoxoxo
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Sarah I am glad to know you, you give me strength
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Aww, back atcha honey, I’m so lucky to be surrounded by such beautiful friends! Xx
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